Scared disease ” reachs antidote before marriage of 9 kinds of “
Catch the person that fears marriage disease, can have a kind of scared feeling to prospective marriage, normally “ symptom ” is be agitated, disposition compares draw well of urgent, love, some people will be tacit, do not wish to talk more, affect the job and life then. Before marriage, you after all Where is scared what? Let us come suit the remedy to the case, see action tear open action:
One, the graveyard that fears “ marriage is love”
Scared reason: By all account the sepulchral ” that “ marriage is love, even if love is again good, entered marriage to do not have passion and sweetness, only endless trifling with trouble. If do not marry,bother a thing without so much, can enjoy the life to the top of one's bent, enjoy the moist … of love…
Raise action: Walk out of disease of the dread before marriage, want to cast off the illusion to matrimony above all, do not put in exorbitant expectation and extravagant hopes, do not think sweetheart every kind is good, apple-pie, honeymoon is sweeter than honey really, should realise clearly, the birth of new family, mean the accentuation of the burden, mean in pairs to want to endeavor for the family responsibility, use up oneself to become the liability of the husband and wife.
Notice, of honeymoon is he bear hardships for the sweetheart readily sweetly be put into trouble and win come, it is commutative dedication, build jointly. Requirement lovers are about before marriage the promising sweetheart, little family that comes for end bears hardships readily the determination of be put into trouble, want good-tempered with the weakness that understands a sweetheart.
2, arranged marriage, understand prospective husband not quite
Scared reason: I and he is kin introduction understanding, because work in two cities, our acquaintance half an year has met 3 times only, family says our age is not small, urging us to be in this 51 get married. But I am right,he still does not understand, his habits and customs, his friend is encircled, even he is concentrated, had talked about a girlfriend so I am not clear, really helpless, think of these every time with respect to the head big, do not want to marry really ……
Raise action: Both sides of male and female needs to add the understanding between wild phase each other ceaselessly, deepen feeling, this is preparation of the psychology before the most important marriage. If this preparation is inadequate, other preparation is again complete the perfect happiness that also won't ensure the life after marriage, even if be have everything that one expects to find of preparation of the material before marriage, also offset psychological loss hard, maintain husband and wife's true conjugal love. Suggest you still understand more consider to marry again, perhaps grow before marriage talk, as far as possible much mutual understanding, can eliminate the scared feeling of pair of future marriage probably.
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