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Disease of the dread before marriage



3, concern and mother-in-law close not to come


Scared reason: Be about to live below same eave with grandpa, mother-in-law later, the habits and customs of each one is exposed without involuntary discharge of urine, mutual the attrition between is inevitable also. Is his pa Mom patient I? Can I have a good time in this home?


Raise action: Had done the spirit that gets used to new life to prepare. Each respects that should think of marriage have a youthful look is vivid before marriage can produce marked change, be only not only and love life to be together alive, still have bilateral parents, brother, sister and kin friend, want society and them to get along well. Before marriage and even inside the period of time after marriage, should create a condition to know and be familiar with the person that those should know, lest marriage hind feels insecurity is mixed because of the life that a lot of stranger enter him,cause error, hurt feeling of husband and wife thereby.


4, afraid housework work does not work


Scared reason: I am the only daughter in the home, as a child parents regards me as a beloved daughter, never had done chore, the hut that arranges oneself at most of what. But marry hind different, should learn to cook wash the dress, pull a floor board even, clear room, light is this a few appearance can be occupied go the breathing space of most ah …… thinks those who live in parents all one's life to shelter really below shade, won't headache so household work.


Raise action: Every woman can become housewife. Regretful is, “ housewife ” is in China at present is not a word that is worth pride, because of the housework that with it hematic arteries and veins is linked together, all the time since be despised even by society and negligence of male people place. We cannot invite man and ridicule in same, what experience housework personally is trival with pains, but household value and other any work are same, the place that is dignity of a housewife and value is, absolutely cannot gently brushstroke has been taken. Esteem housework not only it is new edition " woman rights and interests guarantees a standard " revolutionary achievement, also be one of basic premise of equality of men and women.


5, afraid extramarital affair, fear to divorce


Scared reason: Open newspaper, network now, those who blot out the sky and cover up the earth is off the rails, affair of what, even if after the sweetheart with old love marries, what also can appear 7 years is urticant, of urticant what of 10 years, make popular feeling confused. Especially the person with grown front courtyard of a lot of odd relatives by marriage, special after fearing to marry, divorce again, so flat do not marry, fear marriage brings harm again to oneself.


Raise action: This kind of fear is to originate social public opinion publicizes ” to the negative “ of matrimony, and a few media analyse overmuch ground “ to expose ” to all sorts of marriage problems marital the seamy side, make the person that has ” of “ marriage intent feels a kind of aeriform pressure, what beyond the mark worry mixes ” of trend of “ of the life after as a result produces pair of marriage to fail to marriage is scared; Another reason is, one party is not very satisfactory to another some respect, or certain to the other side defect is in after getting married whether change, oneself can get used to Lv of impeach waiting for a heart.
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From;  Author:Stand originally