With the rapid development of modern society and urban competition becoming increasingly fierce, more and more outstanding young professionals into the "left off" the ranks of men and women left has left is not a new topic. And precisely because they so dear to this topic again into public view.
A time when marriage season, when all kinds of blind dating activities in the remaining men left when the fire Girls, Zhongshan matchmaking dating market also set off a wave of "left off" consumer trends.
Consumer groups
Consumer trends dating younger women groups
In recent years, a growing number of older Zhongshan unmarried youth in bold request to dating "matchmaking", visit matchmaking has become their pressing needs is no longer a shame.
For example, in professional services, white collar, gold collar and high-end sweet people seek seek international dating agencies, recent initiative to come up the number of singles joining the annual growth rate of 8% -10% increase, females 27-35 years old mostly men, mostly with 28-45 years of age, many of them are civil servants, company bosses, teachers and other economic stability, excellent condition after 80 professional people.
Matchmaking company introduced a single person for some excellent large-scale blind dating activities at their own expense by the left than the men and women left their favor. According to Century Club Poetry Love Ya friends, this year the companies have held since the group travel, KTV party, buffet and other activities in a variety of friends to be a lot of 20-30 year-old engineers, doctors and nurses, foreign trade, the enthusiastic response of the elite .
"These unmarried youth usually busy with work, and small circle and the opposite sex, but face large, courtship demanding," How sweet Mi Mi Li Lei said Chief Operating Officer, for them, acquaintances or the participating units and recreational objects tend to produce psychological pressure phase are less, "when due to face or not to do so, through this more intimate way to matchmaking find the orientation of their fate has become."
Many marriage consultant also said that in recent years, more young women joining the trend of getting younger and younger, the number of women more than men in general. In some matchmaking companies have come courting the left women accounted for 60% of the total number, age minimum, 23 years old just graduated from college or work near the girls come to their homes or care for their courtship of a few parents.
"Marriage is a major event related to the fate of a woman, if the delayed age of marriage, the value of weakening choice gradually become smaller, more women are active and the performance anxiety also reflects its awareness of the scale of the problem." He Li Lei said that, in addition to parents, the pressure imposed by other aspects, the situation changes in the concept of the modern woman left the main reason for change.
Market Scan
Increasingly favored matchmaker Executive Search
It is understood that the high-end matchmaking dating agencies in the city's membership more than the price between 500 to 1,000 yuan, according to the selected length of service varies. High-end executive search service is up to 6,000 yuan. In addition to basic matchmaking consultancy services, the majority of subjects also launched matchmaking forums, image programs, psychological counseling seminars, health care, even Western etiquette, such as English Salon distinctive learning activities, so that small groups of members in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere to learn of, and promote emotional communication.
Fast and accurate hit rate is the biggest advantage of a matchmaker, but also seek to attract older youth worship dating one of the important reasons. Sweet seek seek dating, courtship by both the collection of information, the authenticity of the audit or the target pair selection, professional tracking services, matchmaker matching services have a more strictly regulate the process management, the success rate of 80% or more in hand.
According to reports, delivered to 1,880 yuan a year of matchmaking service agreement entered into after the registration to go through special procedures: The company will first ask the person to produce identity card account of this courtship, a single proof, "headhunting" service also provides asset, car documents, and then then fill out a cover education, family, constellation, height, experience, etc. of personal profiles, outlook and personality involving spouse psychological tests, followed by personal interviews with the matchmaker, the expression of intent.
Information on courtship under the premise of confidentiality, matchmaking according to its "standard" in 7 days and arrange for the selection of objects that match the two sides QQ, telephone or meeting, the two immediately return visit the next day: feeling will actively encourage favorite to explain and create opportunities for Q & A; substandard water will continue to look for the heart, full length until the expiry of term of service, also in need of renewal.
"In addition to matchmaking, we have also held many masked PARTY, masked ball, driving, eight minutes dating blind date dating and other activities at their own expense, but not much in hand, results are poor, these projects are now gradually pulled out," Ho Li Lei said the combination of blind dating activities were entertaining a strong, short duration, in-depth understanding of the difficult, so fast and reliable matchmaking, executive search services more left by busy men and left women welcome.
Match proposed
"Left off" should take the initiative to adjust expectations
Many marriage consultant said that no matter what kind of service, many times without success to pull strings or feelings die a natural death after the hand, and gradually alienated the left a few men and women left. In addition there is some communication barriers or lack of courage on the marriage, the spouse of the increasingly high demand and even harsh, it is most of the remaining men and left women with the reason being missed.
It is understood now to find objects dating to the major course more widely older youth, returnees, masters and doctoral talent began to increase, both men and women more in annual income of more than seven million, most of Yi Miqi above, there is room car, his family was excellent ; many women both temperament and intellect, many men are a talented ... ...
General conditions increasingly favorable to them, choosing a spouse are more critical eye. "Today, male mate left a good impression to the first, second, to marrying age, under the living room on the kitchen, the three come together to personality, emotional, and even better communication requirements of income for women; left female mate choice is not only honest and reliable VIP , mature, still married, the economic conditions are good, even to foreigners, returnees. "elegant poem laments the process of matching it encountered many problems.
"Some are constantly looking for a lot of looking, high aspirations are not met since the last one is not caught; some personality too, count on aloof, unwilling to listen to guidance and advice matchmaker, really miss that fit their own only regret; some successful hand out, but the further development of the minor problems encountered in breaking up. "
Poetry he said, had left within a month, a woman introduced to four or five objects, conditions are good, but her request was in constant contact with the insight and gradually become critical, "is a mature first, and later not only to the economy is good, but also a wide level of knowledge, the last course, failed. "
Demanding personal requirements of a good marriage is a fatal blow. "There are a couple good match for hard conditions, very harmonious relationship at first, but gradually found that the woman was the man because he has a gap with the thinking, it is difficult to communicate, and later even voluntarily give up.
"Those who have lost courage or customary marriage to their parents, fear of commitment otaku house women, but also to give myself the opportunity to change themselves to actively seek the immediate fate." Poetry Ya suggested.
Many marriage consultant said that no matter what kind of service, many times without success to pull strings or feelings die a natural death after the hand, and gradually alienated the left a few men and women left. In addition there is some communication barriers or lack of courage on the marriage, the spouse of the increasingly high demand and even harsh, it is most of the remaining men and left women with the reason being missed.
It is understood now to find objects dating to the major course more widely older youth, returnees, masters and doctoral talent began to increase, both men and women more in annual income of more than seven million, most of Yi Miqi above, there is room car, his family was excellent ; many women both temperament and intellect, many men are a talented ... ...
General conditions increasingly favorable to them, choosing a spouse are more critical eye. "Today, male mate left a good impression to the first, second, to marrying age, under the living room on the kitchen, the three come together to personality, emotional, and even better communication requirements of income for women; left female mate choice is not only honest and reliable VIP , mature, still married, the economic conditions are good, even to foreigners, returnees. "elegant poem laments the process of matching it encountered many problems.
"Some are constantly looking for a lot of looking, high aspirations are not met since the last one is not caught; some personality too, count on aloof, unwilling to listen to guidance and advice matchmaker, really miss that fit their own only regret; some successful hand out, but the further development of the minor problems encountered in breaking up. "
Poetry he said, had left within a month, a woman introduced to four or five objects, conditions are good, but her request was in constant contact with the insight and gradually become critical, "is a mature first, and later not only to the economy is good, but also a wide level of knowledge, the last course, failed. "
Demanding personal requirements of a good marriage is a fatal blow. "There are a couple good match for hard conditions, very harmonious relationship at first, but gradually found that the woman was the man because he has a gap with the thinking, it is difficult to communicate, and later even voluntarily give up.
"Those who have lost courage or customary marriage to their parents, fear of commitment otaku house women, but also to give myself the opportunity to change themselves to actively seek the immediate fate." Poetry Ya suggested.
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